JD

Posted Thursday, May 2, 2024

16d

ISTJ

8

7

Trust is the highest form of respect that you can give to others

It really bothers me about the fact that some people are trying to limit their partners' interactions with people from opposite sex just for some ridiculous excuses like "in order not to create misunderstandings" or "you'll make your partner jealous by doing that and the relationship will be falling apart". I am not saying that everyone has the right moral values in the first place, but why did you choose a partner with no moral values? Then again.. If your partner has the right moral values, why didn't you trust them? Remember, being in love is not by luck, it is a decision. Your partner decided to love you! And throughout their lives or your relationship (whichever is shorter), they need to make that decision over and over and over again. They need to decide that they will only love you when there's someone at their workplace hitting on them. They will need to decide that they will only love you when a super gorgeusly attractive man/woman is giving them a green light. Hell yeah they will also need to make that same ridiculous decision whenever you are acting like a jerk for not trusting them and questioning their actions. Why can't you trust that your partner will make that decision to fall in love with you over and over again? If you feel inadequate, then work on that to bring up your value! If you have trust issue, then deal with it before you step into a new relationship. Your partner does not deserve to be your punching bag for your past failure! If you have a low self-esteem, then for God's sake, be more confident! Your partner chose you, didn't they? There must be something in you that they love! Work on it! Work harder! Keep it up! You are not getting anywhere by being a jealous and bitter person because your partner can only take that much of your 💩 Do you know how insulting it feels like when you didn't trust your partner? Please stop doing that to someone you love, because once you lost them, they will never come back to you. Hah! I feel much better.. 😂 Feel free to share your thoughts on this take. Thanks for reading guys 🤣